Even though all of us are fully aware of the fact that the loss of our loved ones is inevitable and that it’s something that every person will experience at some point, there’s nothing that can properly prepare you for it.
And when someone passes away, you are left completely speechless. That’s because there are no words that are comforting enough in these situations, yet you want to do “the right thing” and pay the last respect in the best possible way.
There’s no general rule of thumb when it comes to this; however, what you can do is to resort to these options because they will allow you to showcase your compassionate side.
Sympathy Plants Can Go A Long Way
A lot of people in these instances opt for either sympathy flowers or sympathy plants. Although both of these options are great, there’s something about funeral plants that’s a bit more special. Namely, they are a simple yet effective way to express your condolences to the person who has just lost somebody they loved.
Many people would rather choose funeral plants over flowers, because they leave a much longer-lasting impression and, in a certain way, they offer a great sense of comfort. Those who receive them often feel a lot less depressed and anxious because of them.
You Can Never Be Too Sure If Something You Said Was Appropriate Or Not
As concluded previously, there isn’t a specific set of rules that you should apply to say something that’s seemingly perfect or appropriate. Everyone is different and handles grief differently.
What you need to understand is the fact that regardless of what you do, you won’t be able to erase their sadness or bring the person who died to life. The only thing that you can do is to show up and be a shoulder to cry on during these challenging times.
There are no right or wrong words; however, those that are certainly very caring and commonly used in these situations include the following:
- I am deeply sorry about your loss
- If you need anything, I am here for you
- I cannot imagine what you’re going through, but I want to be there for you whenever you need someone to talk to, or even sit in complete silence
A Lovely Card May Also Be A Good Idea!
If you’re not going to be able to attend the funeral, for whatever reason, yet you still want to do something that’s meaningful, that’s going to show the grieving person how much you care, then sending an emotional, compassionate card of condolence is a great idea, as well!
Even though you can send a digital card, it would maybe be better if you sent the physical card because, at the end of the day, they are tangible and evoke much deeper emotions. Of course, if you do not have time to do it, then the digital counterpart will get the job done, too!
The suggestions that were provided today should be perceived as potentially great ideas that will demonstrate your support and love in these trying times. But that doesn’t make them the only ones. You should ultimately pick the approach that you think will work the best!